I asked a few of my listeners what they wanted to hear. So y'all have asked for it, what happened on your first date? Did it determine whether you continued to date or did it end instantly, WHATS THE TEA? Ive had a few first dates that were absolutely horrible. I dated a French guy that couldn't speak a lick of English. talk about awkward. I have received a few stories regarding some first date drama, y'all have to join the conversation. HighCons.