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From Getting Played to Getting Paid: Why the Dating Game Feels So Different Now

From Getting Played to Getting Paid: Why the Dating Game Feels So Different Now

Update: 2025-08-05
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Ladies… have you noticed what's happening in the dating world right now? More ghosting. More men expecting you to prove yourself. More "build-a-bears" walking around wanting to be earned instead of stepping up as providers. It's not just you — the dating game has shifted, and not in your favor. But here's the truth...

I used to get played — lied to, cheated on, even ended up marrying a man who wasn't even legally single. I went from heartbreak to heartbreak, found myself homeless with a child, and realized I was stuck in the same generational cycles my mother and grandmother went through. So I made a promise to my daughter: I would break the pattern. And I did.

In this episode, I share how I went from being overlooked to deeply valued — from men disappearing on me to men showing up with cars, homes, and real commitment — and I didn't have to compromise my values or give away anything sacred to receive it.

I'll walk you through the science of attraction, the six core needs of a man, and the top mistake so many strong women make: choosing from a place of pain rather than power.

If you're tired of being stuck, confused, or playing small in love — this episode will help you shift. The dating world has changed, but you can change your experience with strategy, healing, and a deep sense of self-worth.

Let me show you how.

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From Getting Played to Getting Paid: Why the Dating Game Feels So Different Now

From Getting Played to Getting Paid: Why the Dating Game Feels So Different Now