This week we’re getting a little more structured- with her 35th birthday around the corner, Alessandra gets real about the stuff she thought she’d have figured out by now: finances and money anxiety, routines and time management, friendship breakups in your 30s and more!

Before diving into Spill the Tea, she introduces a new weekly segment Things I’m Currently Vibin' With where she'll share what she's been loving this week. Then she tackles two wildly relatable write-ins: one from a burnt-out work-from-home “couch goblin” who can’t find the energy for life after 5PM, and another from someone who feels trapped in a “broke but aesthetic” lifestyle fueled by credit cards and pressure to look like they’re thriving. Expect tough love, empathy, and practical “start small” steps because if nobody has it all figured out, we might as well figure it out together.

To write in your Spill The Tea submissions email Alessandra at [email protected]

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