Girly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egos
Description
This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.
We'll discuss:
- Why we can't simply ask for things outright
- The mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission & waiting for opportunities
- The art of elicitation and how to apply 5 of its techniques (there are 13 in total but 5 that are perfectly suited for our purposes)
- How to elicit the answers we need without making the person defensive or suspicious
Btw here's Chase Hughes, the former military chief and expert on elicitation
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki xo
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