DiscoverOff the VPNGreat at code, dating not so much
Great at code, dating not so much

Great at code, dating not so much

Update: 2025-07-16
Share

Description

A date so bad, it felt like a work meeting? Yeah, that happened.


Meet Rochelle, who thought she was going on a quirky first date with a software engineer - until an 8-minute voice memo, an unhinged rant about remote work, and a very questionable boss threat turned everything upside down. 


If you’ve ever tried to date in tech and found yourself knee-deep in awkward convos and glaring red flags, you'll totally get this one.


Got a tech tale of your own or some workplace drama? Hit us up at jellyfish.co/offthevpn. And don’t worry - we’ll keep it Off the VPN.

Highlights:

  • Tech-Savvy Dating: When your date asks you to give a presentation on your first date
  • Remote Work Woes: How far is too far when it comes to job complaints?
  • Red Flag Radar: Recognizing the signs...before they send you an 8-minute voice memo.


Jump into the conversation:
(00:00 ) Intro

(02:03 ) Quirky date idea that’s almost too much

(04:08 ) Complaining about remote work on a first date

(07:20 ) The eight-minute voice memo and hidden recording

(10:02 ) When venting about work goes too far

(14:15 ) How the tech bubble affects dating expectations

(16:27 ) Rochelle’s final move 

(21:31 ) Final reflections about this tech love story

Comments 
00:00
00:00
x

0.5x

0.8x

1.0x

1.25x

1.5x

2.0x

3.0x

Sleep Timer

Off

End of Episode

5 Minutes

10 Minutes

15 Minutes

30 Minutes

45 Minutes

60 Minutes

120 Minutes

Great at code, dating not so much

Great at code, dating not so much

Jellyfish