Wairimu (@vwairimukaruri) is a sex educator who organizes sex parties and has a budding BDSM practice in Nairobi, Kenya. ~

In this very candid chat she shares from her experience with 3somes/4somes going solo or with a partner, and going through those chewy personal reflections and partner and group discussions to create a good setting with full consent and curiosity from all, the good experiences, the bad experiences, what it can teach you about yourself and our society that few other situations can. ~

Two particular options she talks about are bringing a 3rd/4th person into your couple, and going to a sex party. Consent and honesty are essential in creating an amazing experience that builds your confidence and the bond between you and your partner whether it's a one-time thing or ongoing. ~

Thanks Wairimu, this information is often kept tightly under wraps and to hear you speak freely with experience can give many people a much higher entry point or refinement of their existing practice. ~

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