What happens when you’re the one who wants sex more—and your husband doesn’t?

In this powerful, faith-filled conversation, Angela (The Christian Sexpert) sits down with Alanna Roberts, founder of Boudoir by Raw, a faith-based boudoir photography brand helping women reconnect with their God-given identity. Together, they unpack what it means to be a high-drive wife—and how to navigate desire differences, rejection, and chronic pain with honesty, grace, and creativity.

Alanna shares what she’s learned as a wife and minister married to someone who also lives with chronic pain—how their intimacy has evolved, and how creativity became their key to connection. The two talk openly about why sexual rejection can feel so personal, how to reframe it, and why desire is not something to hide or be ashamed of.

If you’ve ever struggled with mismatched drives or felt unseen in your desire, this conversation will remind you: your sexuality isn’t too much—it’s part of how God designed you for connection.

And if you and your spouse are navigating differences in drive, health, or physical ability, Angela offers 1:1 coaching to help couples build a sex life that honors both of your needs—without pressure, shame, or guilt.

Because healthy people in safe marriages don’t turn down good sex—they learn to make it work for both of them.

He’s not broken. You’re not too much. There’s room for both of you in grace.

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🍑 Intimate Conversations - a guided sex journal to help you go deeper in your sexual and non-sexual intimacy

*The Bible version used in this episode was ESV

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