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She Watches, Too: Porn, Shame, & Healing ft. Tabitha Westbrook, CSAT, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S

She Watches, Too: Porn, Shame, & Healing ft. Tabitha Westbrook, CSAT, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S

Update: 2025-08-28
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When you think of porn addiction, chances are you think of men. The Church certainly does. But here’s the truth no one wants to say out loud: women struggle with porn too.

In today's episode I sit down with therapist and author Tabitha Westbrook to rip the shame off a topic women have been forced to keep secret. Together, we unpack:

✨Why porn addiction in women is rarely discussed (especially in the Church)

✨How purity culture fuels silence, shame, and secrecy

✨The unique ways porn use impacts women’s intimacy and relationships

✨Hope and practical steps for healing, recovery, and real connection

Porn isn’t just a “man’s issue.” It’s a human one—and it’s time to talk about it.


To connect with Tabitha:

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Other things mentioned in this episode:

Erotic Communication episode with Brittany Broddaus-Smith

Come As You Are

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The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality, Sam Jolman

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Raising Sexually Healthy Kids featuring Ashley Hudson

Talking to your Kids About Sex featuring Ashley Hudson

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She Watches, Too: Porn, Shame, & Healing ft. Tabitha Westbrook, CSAT, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S

She Watches, Too: Porn, Shame, & Healing ft. Tabitha Westbrook, CSAT, LMFT-S, LCMHC-QS, LPC-S

Angela Griffith