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Healing Old Hurts: Turning Conflict into Deeper Connection

Healing Old Hurts: Turning Conflict into Deeper Connection

Update: 2025-12-03
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Every couple argues…, but very few couples know how to turn conflict into closeness.


In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore why old hurts resurface, why the same arguments repeat, and how conscious repair brings your relationship into deeper emotional and erotic intimacy.

They share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help couples rebuild trust, stay grounded, and reconnect even when the nervous system wants to shut down or push away.

This conversation will support anyone ready to stop avoiding conflict and start healing what’s underneath it.

 

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

  • Why do old hurts linger until they’re witnessed, and why does your body repeat the same patterns in relationships
  • What actually happens in your nervous system during conflict, and why small triggers create big reactions
  • How avoidance builds resentment… and why repair, not time, is what truly softens wounds
  • For women: Why being heard, not fixed, restores safety and opens the body to deeper intimacy
  • For men: How fear of failure, rejection, and shutdown shapes the way they respond in conflict
  • How softening, grounding, and truth turn conflict into connection
  • What are simple, daily practices that help couples repair faster and reconnect more deeply than ever

 

Conflict isn’t a sign something’s wrong… It’s a sign that something deeper is ready to be healed, witnessed, and transformed into love.

 

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

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 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

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ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

 

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

 

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

 

 

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Healing Old Hurts: Turning Conflict into Deeper Connection

Healing Old Hurts: Turning Conflict into Deeper Connection

Reginite Love Sex Truth for Conscious Couples, Kim Coffin, Roberto Pellecer