Summary

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith welcomes back repeat guest Koko and her brother Eric Shaw to discuss their experiences as Black adoptees. They reflect on the recent Black Adoptee Meetup 2024, sharing how it was a profound and healing experience for them. The conversation delves into their personal stories of growing up adopted, the dynamics of their adoptive family, and the impact of their adoptive parents on their lives. Eric and Koko share their differing experiences with their adoptive mother, highlighting the complexities of their relationships and the challenges they faced. They also discuss the effects of trauma and the importance of addressing it to break the cycle for future generations. In this conversation, Eric and Koko delve into their experiences with trauma, family dynamics, and the impact of narcissism on their lives. They discuss the challenges of reconnecting with their birth families, the complexities of their relationships with their adoptive mother, and the importance of setting boundaries for self-love and healing. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of understanding narcissistic traits and the necessity of prioritizing one's well-being in the face of familial challenges.