Every kid is afraid of something. Sometimes their fears make sense; sometimes their extreme anxiety over every ant that crosses their path can seem a little excessive. But our job isn't to make sure our kids never see ants; our job is to help them learn to navigate those feelings on their own.

In this episode, Amy and Margaret discuss:

• Why kids facing their fears is an appropriate part of their emotional development


• Why just our presence, when they're feeling fear, can be a great support


• How more anxious parents tend to create more fearful children—and what to do about it

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

• Lior Abramson et. al for Developmental Science: "The effects of parental presence on amygdala and mPFC activation during fear conditioning: An exploratory study"
  


• Dr. Cara Goodwin for Parenting Translator: "New Study Alert: Your Presence Matters More Than You Think"
  


• NYU Langone Health: "Proven Strategies for Anxious Parents Who May Pass Their Anxiety on to Their Children"
  


• Naître et Grandir: "Fear in Children"
  


• Canadian Paediatric Society: “Helping children deal with their fears”
  


• Butterfield, Moira: Everybody Feels...Scared!
  

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