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Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider

Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider

Update: 2025-06-18
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Holly Solem has been featured in Vogue, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily—but her bold questions on TikTok’s “Manthropology” series are what drew us in. In this candid conversation, Holly and Rafael unpack what attraction really looks like today, from confidence vs. looks to emotional intelligence in long-term love.

Whether you’re dating, partnered, or just curious what women actually want, this episode is a must.

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Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider

Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider

Rafael Gomez