In this episode of the Inchstones Podcast, host Sarah Kernion sits down with Shahriar Afshar, autism parent and founder of the Autism Innovation Lab, to explore how technology, community, and unconditional love are reshaping the future of autism parenting and neurodiversity support.

Together, Sarah and Shahriar discuss the emotional layers of parenting a child with autism—from grief and resilience to acceptance and hope. They unpack the gendered differences in how mothers and fathers process their child’s diagnosis, the growing role of AI in autism care, and how innovation can help families better navigate the daily realities of profound autism and caregiving.

This conversation blends empathy with forward-thinking solutions, revealing how collaboration between parents, technologists, and advocates can create a more inclusive autism community rooted in understanding, connection, and love.

Key Takeaways:

• The emotional journey of autism parenting is complex yet deeply human.


• Fathers and mothers often process challenges and grief differently.


• Community support is essential for parents and caregivers.


• Innovation and AI can enhance autism education and caregiving.


• Technology can improve independence and quality of life for autistic individuals.


• Unconditional love and acceptance remain the most powerful supports.


• Collaboration between parents and innovators fosters autism advocacy stories worth sharing.


• Hope and resilience are at the heart of every special needs family story.

Chapters

• (00:00:00 ) - How to Manage a 16-Year-Old with Autism
• (00:06:50 ) - What Would You Have Done If You Had An Autistic Brother?
• (00:07:44 ) - William Shrey's Autism Innovation Lab
• (00:14:00 ) - In the Elevator With an Autistic Parent
• (00:19:19 ) - Autism and the Real World
• (00:24:42 ) - In the Elevator With Autism Parents
• (00:28:13 ) - How to Give Back to the Autism Community
• (00:34:21 ) - Autistic Caregiver's Challenges
• (00:41:05 ) - Autism Caregiver on the World
• (00:43:31 ) - Inchtones: If You Could Not Fail