In this teaching, Pastor Scott Thom unpacks the powerful message of forgiveness found in Matthew 6:14 –15, emphasizing that God’s forgiveness is closely tied to our willingness to forgive others. He illustrates how unforgiveness blocks blessings, hinders prayer, and harms our relationship with God. Through practical examples and biblical references, Pastor Thom urges believers to “send away” bitterness and embrace relational healing as a pathway to deeper spiritual growth.

🔹 Discussion Questions

1. How does unforgiveness impact your relationship with God and others?
2. What does “sending it away” look like in your life when dealing with grudges?
3. How can unforgiveness hinder your prayers, especially within family or marriage relationships?
4. What are practical ways to maintain a forgiving heart even after being deeply hurt?

🔹 Prayer Points

• Pray for a heart that is quick to forgive, even when it’s difficult.
• Ask God to reveal any hidden bitterness or grudges that may be blocking spiritual growth.
• Pray for healing in relationships that have been broken by unforgiveness.
• Seek God's strength to forgive those who have not apologized.

🔹 Action Steps

1. Reflect: Identify anyone you may be holding a grudge against and why.
2. Release: Verbally forgive them in prayer, even if reconciliation isn't yet possible.
3. Reconcile: If safe and appropriate, reach out to mend the relationship.
4. Resist Bitterness: When resentment returns, repeat the act of “sending it away.”
5. Model Grace: Demonstrate forgiveness in daily interactions, especially with family and close friends.