Are you guilty of making sacrifices? Are you guilty of over working yourself? Are you super guilty of always trying to make others happy before yourself? If you are then we share something in common. Growing up, my mindset was wired around how I can please others, making sacrifices that are not in my best interest and not going after things I believe I deserved. So after a lot of soul searching and toughing up, I decided it was time to call bullshit in how we must make sacrifices to choose between A or B but in all reality, there's always a way to get A and B. It's just a matter of asking how to get both and not giving into an ultimatum. So strive for a life of abundance and get everything you want, instead of choosing what you can get. Getting to both is better than getting to pick between A or B.