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How to Be Truly Helpful: Letting Go of Fixing, Saving, and Controlling

How to Be Truly Helpful: Letting Go of Fixing, Saving, and Controlling

Update: 2025-08-04
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This week on Five Lemons Laughing, we’re diving into one of the most powerful affirmations from A Course in Miracles:

“I am here only to be truly helpful.”

But what does that actually look like in real life?

Too often, being “helpful” gets tangled up with rescuing, over-giving, fixing, or managing other people’s experiences. In this episode, the Lemonettes share raw, heartfelt stories of learning to step back—so that Spirit can step in.

✨ You’ll hear:

  • Drusilla’s mid-year check-in and her practice of releasing attack thoughts

  • Penny’s breakthrough about letting her daughters struggle (and grow!) on their own

  • Melissa’s insights on fear vs. love when offering support

  • Morgan’s Spirit-led moment in a challenging friendship

This conversation is for anyone learning how to show up with presence instead of pressure—offering love, not control. Because truly helpful support doesn’t always mean doing more—it means being more available to Divine Guidance.


🔗 Resources Mentioned


🎯 Need help navigating your own “helping” habits? Work with one of the Lemonettes: FiveLemonsLaughing.com

  • Work with Amanda: Spiritual Counseling 
    Book a complimentary discovery call or email amandasnyder123@gmail.com.
  • Work with Drusilla: Spiritual Counseling
    Email djtalley@comcast.net
  • Work with Melissa: Business and Marketing Coaching, Help with Starting a Business, Bringing Spirit into Your Business
    Email melissa@dugan2.com
  • Work with Morgan: Spiritual Counseling & Kundalini yoga
    Visit lovelightmorgan.com for more info or email morgan@lovelightmorgan.com
  • Work with Penny: Performance Coaching
    "Become a Leader in your life & Live the Life of Your Dreams!"
    Email coachpenny@me.com

 

 

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How to Be Truly Helpful: Letting Go of Fixing, Saving, and Controlling

How to Be Truly Helpful: Letting Go of Fixing, Saving, and Controlling