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How to Be in Love: Self Esteem: On bisexuality, non-monogamy, and her ‘current male lover’

How to Be in Love: Self Esteem: On bisexuality, non-monogamy, and her ‘current male lover’

Update: 2025-06-041
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Rylan is joined by musician and actor Rebecca Lucy Taylor, better known as Self Esteem. Rebecca shares her experience of being in non-monogamous relationships and pushing back against societal norms. She also discusses being bisexual and how her relationship with her ‘current male lover’ has challenged her preconceived ideas of what she wanted love to be.

How to Be in Love – Rylan has loved passionately, lost messily, and is now ready to rediscover what ‘love’ is. But does he need to look at love differently before he can find it again?

Host: Rylan
Assistant Producer: Ben Johns
Producer: Katie Grant
Production Manager: Francesca Bassett
Executive Producers: Barnaby Coughlin and Arron Fellows
Music: Miguel d'Oliveira
Assistant Commissioner: Will Drysdale
Commissioning Editor: Rhian Roberts
A Mindhouse production for BBC Sounds

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How to Be in Love: Self Esteem: On bisexuality, non-monogamy, and her ‘current male lover’

How to Be in Love: Self Esteem: On bisexuality, non-monogamy, and her ‘current male lover’

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