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How to Build Confidence Without External Validation & Stop Relying on Praise

How to Build Confidence Without External Validation & Stop Relying on Praise

Update: 2025-07-24
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Let’s be honest...we all love a little validation. The raise. The “you’re killing it” text. The fire emoji on your story. 💅

But if your self-worth is built on likes, praise, or what your boss thinks of you... we gotta talk.

In this episode of The Blonde Café Podcast, we're chatting about how easy it is to tie your value to other people’s opinions...and how to figure out if the thing you're getting praised for is actually what you want. Whether you're stuck in people-pleasing, chasing promotions, or just feeling burnt out trying to prove yourself, this is your wake-up call.

✨ It's time to stop outsourcing your worth, and start figuring out what actually gets you excited.

What you’ll learn:
-Why relying on validation keeps you stuck
-How to know if a promotion or opportunity actually aligns with what you want
-Using “success” as a stepping stone to your bigger goals (even if it’s not the endgame)
-How to reframe rejection, job pivots, or misaligned paths as part of the journey

This one’s for the ambitious women who want more, and are ready to own it on their terms.

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How to Build Confidence Without External Validation & Stop Relying on Praise

How to Build Confidence Without External Validation & Stop Relying on Praise

Brooke Villanueva