How to Find a Good Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)
Update: 2025-09-03
Description
Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including @Andy_Wells, Mario, and myself, for submissives focusing on the search for a compatible Dom. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic.
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
- (00:00 ) - Intro
- (00:41 ) - Green flags in Doms
- (04:21 ) - Starting slow
- (08:03 ) - Discussing play beforehand
- (16:14 ) - Meeting the submissive at their level
- (22:19 ) - Having humility as a Dom
- (33:03 ) - Understanding the intention behind desires
- (43:20 ) - Feeling safe with the Dom
- (47:58 ) - Asserting yourself as a submissive
- (52:30 ) - Handling trauma triggers
- (56:22 ) - Separating kink and sex
- (01:05:38 ) - Aftercare
- (01:10:07 ) - The Overconfident Dom
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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ
▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw
▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8
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