How to Heal From Your Avoidant Ex-Girlfriend (Step-by-Step Process That Works) | Why is it so hard for men to get over avoidant women (fearful avoidant, dismissive avoidant, avoidant attachment style ) even when they know the relationship isn’t healthy?

In this video, I break down the powerful biochemical force at play: vasopressin—the bonding hormone that makes men wire their long-term future to one woman. Unlike oxytocin (how women bond), vasopressin creates a territorial, monogamous pull that makes heartbreak feel like addiction.

You’ll learn:

🌹 The difference between how men and women bond biologically

🌹 Why heartbreak feels like obsession, rumination, and withdrawal

🌹 How avoidant partners amplify the “addiction cycle” of love

🌹 Why willpower isn’t enough to heal this kind of attachment

🌹 The 4-step shadow work process I teach men to break free, heal their inner child, and step into true masculinity

🌹 How to heal the root cause of RUMINATION so it stops haunting your mind This isn’t just about heartbreak—it’s about transformation. The pain you’re feeling is the invitation to become the man you were always meant to be.

👉 Links mentioned in the video:

❤️ YouTube Video on Emotional Alchemy: https://youtu.be/kVnCxrOTsfM

❤️ Free Men's Masterclass (40 mins): https://katekali.com/unleash-your-masculinity-opt-in/

👑 Mastery for Men: https://shop.katekali.com/products/mastery-for-men/

👑 Rewild Your Release for massive trauma healing, inner child healing, emotional alchemy, and identity rewiring: https://shop.katekali.com/products/rewild-your-release/

💎 Book one 1:1 session with Kate: https://katekali.com/private-session-kate/

💎 Apply to work long-term with Kate: https://katekali.com/consultation-intake-form/