Tristan and Kayla discuss what was helpful and not helpful when they were going through their personal hardships. They tell their stories and give some practical tips on how to love and help people who are going through sorrow and crisis.

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00:00 - Introduction
00:29 - Every Suffering is Unique
02:53 - Pity vs. Charity
06:35 - Loving us is knowing my son
12:46 - Hard to help with tragic death
14:54 - Don’t Intrude
18:56 - People want to do something but don’t know how
24:35 - Know your motives for helping
25:51 - Embrace being awkward
28:57 - Being present in crisis
31:11 - Loving over the long haul
36:51 - Keep asking questions and saying the name
40:38 - Others Loving our children
44:28 - Final Practical Advice