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How to be there for people without losing yourself

How to be there for people without losing yourself

Update: 2025-12-08
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I’ve always been a giver—emotionally, financially, mentally. I love being there for people I care about. But at one point in my life, it started draining me. So I did what the internet tells you to do:

“Protect your energy.”

But I went too far.
Way too far.


In this raw, honest episode, I open up about how setting boundaries turned into emotional avoidance. I cut off people who cared about me. I shut down from friends and family. I mistook coldness for healing. And in the process, I hurt people—not because they were toxic, but because I was overwhelmed.

If you’ve ever struggled with giving too much… or protecting your peace a little too aggressively… this episode is for you.

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How to be there for people without losing yourself

How to be there for people without losing yourself

Raymond kirungi