In this episode, we welcome DJ Stutz, an experienced educator and parenting coach, to talk about three key topics that shape the way we raise and support children with special needs:

- Managing Power Struggles

- Avoiding Situations Where Children Internalize Self-Doubt.

- How to Handle Public Meltdowns Without Being Judged.

Claudie joins the conversation to explain how brain development plays a role in emotional regulation and learning, and she shares practical sensory enrichment techniques to help children feel calmer, safer, and more engaged.

Episode Highlights:

[3:39 ] DJ shares how being the eldest of seven siblings shaped her lifelong passion for parenting and education.

[6:02 ] Kim reacts to DJ’s realization that many “challenging” childhood behaviors are completely normal—just misunderstood.

[10:15 ] DJ explains how subtle parental behaviors can reinforce negative self-perceptions in children.

[15:54 ] Claudie breaks down how sensory processing impacts emotional regulation and learning.

[19:06 ] Claudie shares a simple but powerful technique using physical contact and wait time to encourage language development.

[20:00 ] Kim passionately explains how traditional therapies can unintentionally make kids feel broken rather than supported.

[22:15 ] Claudie explains why parents should encourage babbling in older children as a stepping stone for speech development.

[26:00 ] DJ tells a heartwarming story about a stranger’s kindness during a public meltdown—and why parents should let go of embarrassment.

[28:15 ] DJ encourages parents to “ditch embarrassment” and focus on what their child truly needs.

[33:00 ] Claudie describes how sensory enrichment activities help children with self-regulation and speech development.

[38:27 ] DJ gives a practical grocery shopping strategy that helps children feel trusted, involved, and calm.

DJ is offering a FREE Parent Perspectives Workshop on the 4th Thursday of every month to help you navigate various parenting challenges and connect with other parents. Sign up here: imperfectheroes.com