In Relationships Feeling Safe Is More Important Than Feeling Excited
Update: 2026-01-02
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In this episode we’ll talk about:
- Why excitement is often mistaken for alignment or chemistry
- How safety creates deeper connection and better decisions
- The nervous-system difference between excitement and stability
- Why many people confuse intensity with meaning
- How safety allows growth, creativity, and intimacy to last
- Learning to trust calm without labeling it “boring”
- and more.
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