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In Relationships Feeling Safe Is More Important Than Feeling Excited

In Relationships Feeling Safe Is More Important Than Feeling Excited

Update: 2026-01-02
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In this episode we’ll talk about:

  1. Why excitement is often mistaken for alignment or chemistry
  2. How safety creates deeper connection and better decisions
  3. The nervous-system difference between excitement and stability
  4. Why many people confuse intensity with meaning
  5. How safety allows growth, creativity, and intimacy to last
  6. Learning to trust calm without labeling it “boring”
  7. and more.

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In Relationships Feeling Safe Is More Important Than Feeling Excited

In Relationships Feeling Safe Is More Important Than Feeling Excited