Is Your Cat Stressed? The Signs Most Pet Parents Miss With The Two Crazy Cat Ladies
Description
šļø Episode Overview
Welcome back to the Golden Whiskers Podcast! Today weāre diving into a topic every cat parent should understand: feline stressāwhat it looks like, how to manage it, and why itās not as complicated (or expensive) as you might think.
Joining me are Jae and Adrienne, better known as The Two Crazy Cat Ladiesāfeline wellness warriors, social media stars, and proud cat moms of five. Since 2015, theyāve been on a mission to help cats live longer, healthier, and happier lives with a natural approach to care.
From daily playtime and calming herb gardens to spotting subtle stress signals and reducing toxic household products, this episode is packed with fun, helpful, and actionable ways to help your cats feel more at ease.
Whether youāve got one cat or five (like Jae and Adrienne!), youāll walk away with simple, powerful tools to create a calmer, happier home for your feline family.
š± Episode Highlights
š„ Cat stress is more common than you thinkThink hiding is the only sign of feline anxiety? Jae and Adrienne break down subtle stress signals you might be missingālike refusing to play, overgrooming, or changes in appetite and litter box habits.
š§āāļø Whatās the cheapest & most effective way to reduce cat stress?Exercise! Yepāplaytime is everything. Activating your catās prey drive through daily play helps reduce stress, build confidence, and boost health.
š Routines = Peace of MindA consistent daily schedule (feeding, litter scooping, play) helps your cat feel secure. Bonus: theyāll tell you if you're 30 seconds late for mealtime. š¼
š” Managing stress in a multi-cat householdFrom vertical spaces and catwalks to ālanes of traffic,ā they share how they keep harmony in a 5-cat householdāand why understanding each catās individual personality matters.
šæ Natural remedies for stressThey dish on everything from calming herb gardens and pheromone diffusers to CBD and their signature Cat Calm blend (with 80+ herbs and minerals).
š¬ļø Hidden stressors in your homeScented litter, air fresheners, candles, and even your own stress levels can affect your cat. Learn what to avoidāand how taking a post-work shower might help your kitty.
š The Two Crazy Cat Ladies' Recommendations for Cat Owners
Here are some of Jae and Adrienneās go-to strategies for keeping their cats healthy and stress-free:
ā Prioritize daily play ā Itās more than just funāitās instinctual. Activate your catās prey sequence with wand toys like Da Bird.
ā Stick to a routine ā Feed, scoop, and play around the same time every day to give your cats structure and security.
ā Offer natural calming aids ā Try herbal blends like Cat Calm, or build an herb garden for self-selection.
ā Ditch the toxins ā Avoid scented litters, plug-ins, and chemical cleaners. Even candles and essential oils can cause stress and inflammation.
ā Build vertical space & escape routes ā Especially in multi-cat homes, give each cat their own safe zones and traffic lanes.
ā Manage your own stress ā Cats mirror your energy. Take a breath, reset after a long day, or even shower to wash off cortisol.
ā Explore supervised outdoor time ā From catios to window perches to leash walks, a taste of the outdoors can offer enrichment and reduce stress.
š¦ Lightning Round Fun
šÆ Whatās in your catsā bowls?Commercially prepared raw meatāthis week: venison, chicken, and rabbit.
š§ø Favorite enrichment toy?Da Bird wand toy is a fan favorite for triggering prey play.
ā° Who wakes them up first?Jack and Zorro, the boys!
š Last thing Googled?Permethrināa common dog flea treatment that's dangerously toxic to cats.
š Final Thought
āGive your cats choice. Whether itās food, play, hiding spots, or herbsāchoice is a stress reliever. Watch them self-select what they need. Itās fascinating, empowering, and makes them feel seen.āāJae and Adrienne, The Two Crazy Cat Ladies
š¾ Connect with The Two Crazy Cat Ladies
* Website: twocrazycatladies.com
* Instagram: @TheTwoCrazyCatLadies
* YouTube: @TwoCrazyCatLadies
* Live Q&As: Every Monday night on social
* Podcast: Back in the Closet ā Live Wednesdays on Facebook & YouTube
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Thanks for listeningāand remember: your love is their calm. š
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