I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me On. But What Is This Even Called?

Update: 2022-01-30

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This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeling judged for her boundaries.

Guest: Ryan Scoats

Mentioned in the episode:

‘I don’t mind watching him cum’: Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality.

Understanding Threesomes by Ryan Scoats

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