"Everything's a little scary until you understand it," is how J.D. Barker sums up the end of this incredible interview. In this episode of 'I Should Say That Out Loud,' host Donna Brendel engages in a deep conversation with bestselling author J.D. Barker about his journey as an autistic individual and how it has shaped his writing career. They explore the influence of Barker's Midwestern roots, the impact of autism on creativity, and the importance of structure in both writing and daily life. Barker shares personal anecdotes about his diagnosis, the challenges he faced, and the strategies he developed to succeed as a writer. The discussion also highlights the significance of reading, the business side of writing, and the encouragement for autistic individuals and their families to embrace their uniqueness and pursue their passions.J.D. is a true inspiration for anyone who desires to face their fears head on and overcome them, because he's done just that in so many instances. You will have much to chew on after listening, as J.D. will challenge, inspire, and encourage you, which is a scary endeavor. And well, that's what J.D. is best at, writing to bring about that emotional reaction that causes us to feel. Even when he talks about writing, he spurs an emotional reaction, and better yet, an encouraging and inspirational reaction. How amazing and wonderful is that!J.D.'s website: JDBarker.comChapters: 00:00 - Introduction to JD Barker and Writing Journey05:23 - Navigating Life with Autism09:57 - The Aha Moment of Diagnosis and Impact on Life and Career13:51 - The Role of Reading in Childhood and Beyond16:01 - Seeing Words in Color and Synesthesia19:09 - Exploring Character Development and Traits20:52 - Where Do Your Stories and Characters Come From?22:10 - Balancing Creativity and Business in Writing24:30 - Public Speaking - Overcoming a Huge Autistic Fear25:59 - The Emotional Connection to Characters26:42 - Writing Process and Daily Routine29:12 - The Balance of Structure and Creativity30:15 - Inspiration From Real Life31:06 - JD's Favorite Genre, the Thriller, Chasing the Emotional Reaction33:16 - The Impact of Reading on Personal Growth34:51 - The Plus Column of Autism - Focus, Creativity, Finishing Projects37:25 - Visualizing Characters and Settings38:09 - Seeing the World in Greater Detail39:33 - Communication: Verbally vs. Written41:06 - JD's Encouragement for Autistic Families42:41 - I See You, the Autistic Connection43:26 - The Idea of Writing a Memoir47:23 - Closing Thoughts and Future Works