John Duerler - navigating complexities of coming out while creating community for gay fathers
John Duerler - navigating complexities of coming out while creating community for gay fathersUpdate: 2024-11-12
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In this interview David Cotton speaks with John Duerler who shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man, navigating the complexities of coming out to his family and the challenges of maintaining relationships. He discusses the importance of being true to oneself, the supportive reactions from his family, and the creation of a community for gay fathers. John emphasizes the significance of open communication and offers advice for others in similar situations, highlighting that they are not alone in their struggles. Keywords coming out, LGBTQ, family dynamics, self-discovery, relationships, gay fathers, acceptance, mental health, personal growth, community support Takeaways
"I had to be true to myself."
"I want to come work for you."
"It gets better."
"You're not alone."
"Be true to yourself. Get help."
Audio Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Coming Out Journeys
03:00 Early Experiences and Realizations
05:55 Navigating Relationships and Family Dynamics
08:49 The Impact of Family and Support Systems
12:13 Coming Out to Family and Friends
15:10 Creating a Supportive Community
18:02 Reflections on Dating and Relationships
20:46 Advice for Others on Their Journey
24:07 Conclusion and Resources
Book Recommendation: Fashionably Late: Gay, Bi, and Trans Men Who Came Out Later in Life, edited by Vinnie Kinsella. https://a.co/d/dh3N2yM
Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com
YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/0Dx2jCfpzlQ
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg
Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com
Contact me: mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com
© 2024 David Cotton Coaching, LLC. All rights reserved.The "Out Late With David" podcast and its content are the property of David Cotton Coaching, LLC. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from David Cotton Coaching, LLC is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to "Out Late With David" and David Cotton Coaching, LLC with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.
In this interview David Cotton speaks with John Duerler who shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man, navigating the complexities of coming out to his family and the challenges of maintaining relationships. He discusses the importance of being true to oneself, the supportive reactions from his family, and the creation of a community for gay fathers. John emphasizes the significance of open communication and offers advice for others in similar situations, highlighting that they are not alone in their struggles. Keywords coming out, LGBTQ, family dynamics, self-discovery, relationships, gay fathers, acceptance, mental health, personal growth, community support Takeaways
- John's journey of self-discovery began in childhood.
- He dated women for many years before coming out.
- Family support played a crucial role in his coming out process.
- John's children reacted positively to his coming out.
- He emphasizes the importance of therapy in understanding one's identity.
- John's relationship with his wife remains amicable despite their separation.
- He created a community for gay fathers to share experiences.
- John's podcast aims to help others navigate similar journeys.
- He believes in the power of open communication within families.
- John encourages others to seek help and support during their journey.
"I had to be true to myself."
"I want to come work for you."
"It gets better."
"You're not alone."
"Be true to yourself. Get help."
Audio Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Coming Out Journeys
03:00 Early Experiences and Realizations
05:55 Navigating Relationships and Family Dynamics
08:49 The Impact of Family and Support Systems
12:13 Coming Out to Family and Friends
15:10 Creating a Supportive Community
18:02 Reflections on Dating and Relationships
20:46 Advice for Others on Their Journey
24:07 Conclusion and Resources
Book Recommendation: Fashionably Late: Gay, Bi, and Trans Men Who Came Out Later in Life, edited by Vinnie Kinsella. https://a.co/d/dh3N2yM
Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com
YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/0Dx2jCfpzlQ
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg
Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com
Contact me: mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com
© 2024 David Cotton Coaching, LLC. All rights reserved.The "Out Late With David" podcast and its content are the property of David Cotton Coaching, LLC. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from David Cotton Coaching, LLC is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to "Out Late With David" and David Cotton Coaching, LLC with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.
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