summary

In this episode, Ona and Megan discuss their experiences navigating life as widows, focusing on the judgments and assumptions they face from others. They share personal stories about their weekends, the challenges of dating after loss, and the expectations placed on them in new relationships. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and kindness towards those who are grieving, as well as the complexities of financial planning and support in their new lives.

takeaways

• Grief is a personal journey that others may not understand.
• Judgments about how one should grieve can be hurtful.
• Dating after loss can bring its own set of judgments.
• It's important to communicate openly about expectations in new relationships.
• Financial stability is a crucial topic for widows and divorced dads.
• Support from friends can make a significant difference in the grieving process.
• Assumptions about moving on can lead to misunderstandings.
• It's okay to prioritize your own needs and feelings after loss.
• People often project their own fears and judgments onto others.
• Kindness and understanding are essential when supporting someone who is grieving.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Weekend Recap

11:33

Navigating Grief and Judgment

26:39

Dating After Loss

36:28

Assumptions About New Relationships

50:10

Financial Judgments and Planning for the Future

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