Living in the victim mindset held me back from being the best version of myself as a mom.✨ The Happiest YOU. Masterclass (free)✨Sign up: https://learn.slowishparenting.com/happiest-you-masterclassOfferings ⬇️🌿 Calm Mama Blueprint | Learn the Skill of Calm + Regulation: https://learn.slowishparenting.com/Calm-mama🎙Unscripted. Exclusive Parenting Podcast: https://learn.slowishparenting.com/offers/QFAtEozc/checkout- Mentions from this Video:🌼 NVC: https://www.cnvc.org/🌼 @IreneLyon 🌼 Hold on to Your Kids: https://amzn.to/4hT6RHZ[Let's Be Friends]Website: https://slowishparenting.com/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/slowishparenting/Podcast: https://slowishparenting.com/podcast/Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/blessourlittles?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_aipsfblessourlittles_5C815BACDYZQSHQJGCZVContact/Collabs: Alexis@slowishparenting.com-My StoryIf you are new here, my name is Alexis! I'm a mom of (almost) three kiddos and a parenting coach. After hitting rock bottom with postpartum rage, I was able to find joy and happiness in in motherhood again. It's become my mission to help parents show up with peace even in the most challenging moments with their children.On my channel you will find encouragement through overwhelm, burnout, and overstimulation as a stay-at-home mom, slow living with kids, overcoming postpartum and mom rage, stoping anxiety, mom guilt and shame, how to regulate your nervous system, and a little bit of (real life) motherhood inspiration in between.In this video I share about: How to get out of the victim mindset, my story of how being a victim to my children effected my parenting, victimizing yourself in marriage and to your husband, how your unmet needs are causing more disruption in motherhood, signs of the victim mentality, noticing your old patterns, making new patterns, journaling to become a happier mom.Chapters0:00 Intro1:14 Victim Mindset5:00 My Story9:55 What does Victimization give us?12:12 A Child’s Need12:51 Victimization in Marriage14:08 Victimization in Motherhood19:30 Signs of Victim Mentality22:10 Old Patterns24:55 New Patterns29:44 Journaling Question One31:03 Journaling Question Two32:24 Journaling Question ThreeFTC - This video is not sponsored. Although the links in this description may have some affiliate links, but all of the opinions are honest and my own!Disclaimer: The Slow[ish] Parenting podcast is ONLY for educational purposes. This is not medical or mental health advice. Please get the guidance of a trusted qualified provider to help you make decisions that will best support your life. By listening, you are agreeing to take responsibility for your interpretations and decisions.