Live For Yourself. The Courage To Be Disliked
Description
Explore the powerful concept of gaining the courage to be disliked to truly unlock your creative potential. This episode delves into why artists often struggle with seeking approval and offers actionable steps to build a 'fortress' around your creative life. Learn how to detach your self-worth from others' opinions, embrace a process-focused mindset, and form a supportive community. Featuring insights from the book 'The Courage to Be Disliked' by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake, this guide will help you establish a solid foundation for creative confidence and fulfillment.
00:00 Introduction: The Root of Unhappiness
01:31 Evolutionary Need for Approval
03:02 The Unwinnable Game of Seeking Approval
04:43 Shifting from Approval to Contribution
05:49 Building the Fortress: Foundations
09:01 Constructing the Fortress Walls
11:07 The Watch Tower: Observing and Deflecting Negativity
14:37 The Drawbridge: Controlling Access to Your Creative Space
16:29 Building Your Fortress Army
18:07 Finding Your Allies and Building Your Tribe
19:25 Conclusion: Embracing the Courage to Be Disliked
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