In this Love Letter, Rev. Sex speaks directly to those who have been taught to fear a wrathful God who threatens disobedience with eternal punishment. Reverend Sex breaks down the pervasive nature of fear within Christian theology, particularly the fear of hell and divine punishment, and how this fear can paralyze believers. The right reverend emphasizes the importance of decolonizing one's understanding of God, shifting from a fear-based relationship to one centered on love, authenticity, and divine companionship. The episode concludes with a heartfelt prayer for those overwhelmed by fear and a call to practical action rooted in courage, community, and faith.

00:00  Introduction to Love Letters with Reverend Sex

01:38  Personal Reflections and Fear

02:29  Understanding Fear in Theology

05:05  Trauma Responses and Community Challenges

09:13  Decolonizing God and Faith

17:38  Prayers and Final Thoughts

21:35  Closing Remarks and Resources

Hosted by Rev. Sex (Rev. Alba Onofrio - Executive Director of Soulforce), this podcast channel offers connection, reflection, and community for anyone feeling spiritually marginalized or exiled but still resiliently faithful while centering dialogue on Queer, trans, and feminist theology.

The platform gathers people of diverse Christian denominations, pastors, activists, and scholars to discuss gender identity, sex, and pleasure in the context of faith, aiming to heal the wounds of colonizing religion and create a welcoming space for topics often considered taboo in religious spaces.

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