On this week’s episode, we welcome guest Chelsea Devantez (head writer for The Problem with Jon Stewart, ABC's Not Dead Yet, Celebrity Book Club with Chelsea Devantez) just in time for her birthday! Whoo hoo!

Dating is difficult but Chelsea and I discuss how to harness your main character energy to make it actually enjoyable and an excuse to not be a pajama woman. We talk about why NOT to have dinner on a first date and invent an unfortunately necessary nervous system game called, “Red Flag or Fate?”

Datemare with Hayley Marie Norman is for those partnered *and* not partnered, but I especially hope this episode gives our single listeners hope, self-esteem, worth, and even tools to help make the process of finding love a little less awful.