Minisode 17: Vetting a New Partner
Update: 2021-05-25
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We won’t always be in the time of a plague, and even though we are, meeting potential partners online continues to be very common. Before you get into a relationship or decide to play with someone new, it’s important to vet them as much as you can. In this week’s minisode, we’re sharing five tips to help you make sure this person is safe for you. Some tips will apply more or less based on your specific situation, but even using one or two may help you out.
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Links from the episode:
BDSM Basics: Vetting a New Partner (text and video version)
Being “Picky” About Your Partners (episode 249)
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A massive thanks to our Patreon community for making these shorter episodes possible!
Links from the episode:
BDSM Basics: Vetting a New Partner (text and video version)
Being “Picky” About Your Partners (episode 249)
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So, I don't think completely skipping dungeons is a hard red flag. I feel like listening to the reason is make or break on that. For me, my local dungeon was open all of Covid and I'm no longer comfortable going there because it said a lot of their stance on saftey. Which I feel is super valid. You are right that there could absolutely be a red flag in refusing if it's some creep doing bad stuff they don't want to see in public. But, I don't think the entire act in itself is a red flag.