Motherhood isn’t your only identity with Vicki Courtney

Update: 2025-10-14

Description

This week’s conversation is such a refreshing encouragement for every stage of motherhood. I’m joined by author, speaker, and seasoned mom Vicki Courtney, and she brings so much wisdom and honesty about the changing roles we face as moms.

From the early years of raising little ones to navigating an empty nest, Vicki reminds us that while motherhood is deeply meaningful, it’s not our highest calling. Our identity must be rooted in Christ, not in what we do, how we parent, or what season we're in.

Here’s what we unpack in today’s episode:

• Why your value isn’t defined by your parenting performance

• The gift of self-care and how it fuels your ability to show up well

• The importance of investing in your marriage (yes, even in the chaos!)

• How to approach each season of motherhood with grace, not guilt

Whether you're in the thick of diaper changes or college drop-offs, this conversation is full of truth and hope for your soul.

Vicki is a national speaker and bestselling author whose books have ministered to women and teens for over two decades. She’s known for her relatable, truth-filled encouragement, and her latest book Motherhood Is Not Your Highest Callinghelps moms reframe their identity through a biblical lens. She and her husband live in Austin, Texas, and have three grown children and grandchildren.

As always, I’d love for you to leave a quick rating or review if this episode encourages you, it means so much and helps other parents find these life-giving conversations.

Connect with Courtney

vickicourtney.com

Instagram

Motherhood is not your highest calling by Vicki Courtney

Resources Mentioned

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

Christian Parenting products

10 Questions series

(06:13 ) Redefining Identity: Beyond Motherhood

(12:00 ) Wake-Up Calls: Lessons from Parenting and Life

(17:51 ) Prioritizing Marriage in Parenting

(24:03 ) Overcoming Guilt: Embracing Grace