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My Adopted Parents Exploited Seventh-Day Adventism to Do the Unspeakable

My Adopted Parents Exploited Seventh-Day Adventism to Do the Unspeakable

Update: 2025-11-03
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CW: CSA, rape.  Charlotte Hayes was adopted as a baby to Seventh-Day Adventist parents who used the doctrine to harm her in unimaginable ways. She was forced to eat raw vegan, not given adequate nutrients and kept dangerously thin, while the rest of the family ate normally. On top of that, CSA started happening at age 7 and she was told it was to prepare her for being a wife. When signs of physical abuse caught the attention of her public school, they got CPS involved, but the system was a colossal failure and only made it worse at home. She even reported the violence to an SDA pastor who then reported it to the higher councils of the church, but they did nothing. 

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00:00:00 Intro

00:03:23 Charlotte’s adoption into an SDA family

00:09:18 Strict upbringing

00:15:21 Adopted to be h*rmed

00:16:38 TW: CSA from her adopted father

00:20:30 How purity culture at church mentally clashed with CSA at home 

00:25:46 Charlotte's experience in public school

00:33:14 Teachers started to notice signs of ab*se

00:42:23 Being gay in strict purity culture

00:45:54 Experience at boarding school

00:50:54 Washing each other's feet at school...

00:54:08 Charlotte's breaking point

01:02:21 Plotting the escape

01:07:29 Linda listen

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My Adopted Parents Exploited Seventh-Day Adventism to Do the Unspeakable

My Adopted Parents Exploited Seventh-Day Adventism to Do the Unspeakable