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No trauma on the first date — FT. Lindsey Metselaar

No trauma on the first date — FT. Lindsey Metselaar

Update: 2025-10-21
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This week Emma heads straight for the jugular in this NYC-core episode of Too Much, sitting down with We Met at Acme host Lindsey Metselaar to dissect modern dating in New York — think dating app do’s & don’ts, nightclub bathroom lines, and why “the easygoing girl” is a myth. From first-date rules, to ghosting, love bombing, and the catch 22 that is the dating app, they get real about what women actually want, what men keep getting wrong, and how boundaries beat bare-minimum “green flags” every time.

Then Emma wraps up the episode with a rapid-fire “Too Much / Not Enough” for Lindsey that will make every finance bro delete his Strava account. If you’ve ever met at Acme, matched in Manhattan, or tried to date with an edge in this city, this one’s for you.

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No trauma on the first date — FT. Lindsey Metselaar

No trauma on the first date — FT. Lindsey Metselaar