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Not self-abandoning: How motherhood awakened my inner fire with Mayuri Govender-Jonck

Not self-abandoning: How motherhood awakened my inner fire with Mayuri Govender-Jonck

Update: 2025-07-23
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I'm joined by Mayuri Govender-Jonck, lawyer, transformation specialist, and creator of Breaking Brown Silence, for a deeply honest conversation about the realities of early motherhood. Eight months into her journey as a mother, Mayuri shares how becoming a parent ignited an unstoppable fire within her to never abandon herself again.



We dive into her traumatic pregnancy and birth experience - from bed rest at 20 weeks, to gestational diabetes, to her daughter's 5-week NICU stay where she wasn't allowed to latch for 3 weeks. Mayuri courageously shares the rage, powerlessness, and institutional trauma she faced, and how she ultimately had to fight the medical system to get her healthy baby discharged.



This conversation explores the political nature of motherhood, the moral burden society places on women's bodies, and why motherhood can be the first visceral experience of oppression for many. We discuss the mammalian reality of pregnancy, the impossible standards women face, and how the fire that burns within mothers - despite systemic failures - reveals our untouchable strength.



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Not self-abandoning: How motherhood awakened my inner fire with Mayuri Govender-Jonck

Not self-abandoning: How motherhood awakened my inner fire with Mayuri Govender-Jonck

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