Drs. Hope Rugo, Sheri Brenner, and Mikolaj Slawkowski-Rode discuss the struggle that health care professionals experience when terminally ill patients are suffering and approaches to help clinicians understand and respond to suffering in a more patient-centered and therapeutic way.

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Dr. Hope Rugo: Hello, and welcome to By the Book, a monthly podcast series from ASCO that features engaging conversations between editors and authors of the ASCO Educational Book.  I’m your host, Dr. Hope Rugo. I’m director of the Women’s Cancers Program and division chief of breast medical oncology at the City of Hope Cancer Center, and I’m also the editor-in-chief of the Educational Book.

On today’s episode, we’ll be exploring the complexities of grief and oncology and the struggle we experience as healthcare professionals when terminally ill patients are suffering. Our guests will discuss approaches to help clinicians understand and respond to suffering in a more patient-centered and therapeutic way, as outlined in their recently published article titled, “Oncology and Suffering: Strategies on Coping With Grief for Healthcare Professionals.”

I’m delighted today to welcome Dr. Keri Brenner, a clinical associate professor of medicine, palliative care attending, and psychiatrist at Stanford University, and Dr. Mikołaj Sławkowski-Rode, a senior research fellow in philosophy in the Humanities Research Institute at the University of Buckingham, where he also serves as director of graduate research in p hilosophy. He is also a research fellow in philosophy at Blackfriars Hall at the University of Oxford and associate professor at the University of Warsaw. 

Our full disclosures are available in the transcript of this episode.

Dr. Brenner and Dr. Sławkowski-Rode, thanks for being on the podcast today.

Dr. Keri Brenner: Great to be here, Dr. Rugo. Thank you so much for that kind introduction.

Dr. Mikołaj Sławkowski-Rode: Thank you very much, Dr. Rugo. It’s a pleasure and an honor.

Dr. Hope Rugo: So I’m going to start with some questions for both of you. I’ll start with Dr. Brenner. You’ve spoken and written about the concept of suffering when there is no cure. For oncologists, what does it mean to attune to suffering, not just disease? And how might this impact the way they show up in difficult conversations with patients?

Dr. Keri Brenner: Suffering is something that’s so omnipresent in the work of clinical oncology, and I like to begin by just thinking about what is suffering, because it’s a word that we use so commonly, and yet, it’s important to know what we’re talking about. I think about the definition of Eric Cassell, who was a beloved mentor of mine for decades, and he defined suffering as the state of severe distress that’s associated with events that threaten the intactness of a person. And my colleague here at Stanford, Tyler Tate, has been working on a definition of suffering that encompasses the experience of a gap between how things are versus how things ought to be.

Both of these definitions really touch upon suffering in a person-centered way that’s relational about one’s identity, meaning, autonomy, and connectedness with others. So these definitions alone remind us that suffering calls for a person-centered response, not the patient as a pathology, but the panoramic view of who the patient is as a person and their lived reality of illness. And in this light, the therapeutic alliance becomes one of our most active ingredients in care. The therapeutic alliance is that collaborative, trusting bond as persons that we have between clinician and patient, and it’s actually one of the most powerful predictors of meaningful outcomes in our care, especially in oncologic care. 

You know, I’ll never forget my first day of internship at Massachusetts General Hospital. A faculty lecturer shared this really sage insight with us that left this indelible mark. She shared, “As physicians and healers, your very self is the primary instrument of healing. Our being is the median of the medicine.” So, our very selves as embodied, relationally grounded people, that’s the median of the medicine and the first most enduring medicine that we offer. That has really borne fruit in the evidence that we see around the therapeutic alliance. And we see this in oncologic care, that in advanced cancer, a strong alliance with one’s oncologist truly improves a patient’s quality of life, treatment adherence, emotional well-being, and even surpasses structured interventions like psychotherapeutic interventions.

Dr. Hope Rugo: That’s just incredibly helpful information and actually terminology as well, and I think the concept of suffering differs so much. Suffering comes in many shapes and forms, and I think you really have highlighted that. But many oncologists struggle with knowing what to do when patients are suffering but can’t be fixed, and I think a lot of times that has to do with oncologists when patients have pain or shortness of breath or issues like that. There are obviously many ways people suffer. But I think what’s really challenging is how clinicians understand suffering and what the best approaches to respond to suffering are in the best patient-centered and therapeutic way.

Dr. Keri Brenner: I get that question a lot from my trainees in palliative care, not knowing what to do. And my first response is, this is about how to be, not about knowing what to do, but how to be. In our medical training, we’re trained often how to think and treat, but rarely how to be, how to accompany others. And I often have this image that I tell my trainees of, instead of this hierarchical approach of a fix-it mentality of all we’re going to do, when it comes to elements of unavoidable loss, mortality, unavoidable sufferings, I imagine something more like accompaniment, a patient walking through some dark caverns, and I am accompanying them, trying to walk beside them, shining a light as a guide throughout that darkness. So it’s a spirit of being and walking with. And it’s so tempting in medicine to either avoid the suffering altogether or potentially overidentify with it, where the suffering just becomes so all-consuming like it’s our own. And we’re taught to instead strike a balance of authentic accompaniment through it.

I often teach this key concept in my palli-psych work with my team about formulation. Formulation is a working hypothesis. It’s taking a step back and asking, “Why? Why is this patient behaving in this manner? What might the patient’s core inner struggle be?” Because asking that “why” and understanding the nuanced dimensions of a patient’s core inner struggle will really help guide our therapeutic interactions and guide the way that we accompany them and where we choose to shine that light as we’re walking with them. And oftentimes people think, “Well Keri, that sounds so sappy or oversentimental,” and it’s not. You know, I’m just thinking about a case that I had a couple months ago, and it was a 28-year-old man with gastric cancer, metastatic disease, and that 28-year-old man, he was actually a college Division I athlete, and his dad was an acclaimed Division I coach. And our typical open-ended palliative care questions, that approach, infuriated them. They needed to know that I was showing up confident, competent, and that I was ready, on my A-game, with a real plan for them to follow through. And so my formulation about them was they needed somebody to show up with that confidence and competence, like the Division I athletes that they were, to really meet them and accompany them where they were on how they were going to walk through that experience of illness.

Dr. Hope Rugo: These kinds of insights are so helpful to think about h