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One Year Into CoastFI: Role Reversals, Slowing Down, and Finding Joy Beyond the Numbers

One Year Into CoastFI: Role Reversals, Slowing Down, and Finding Joy Beyond the Numbers

Update: 2025-08-21
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It’s been one full year since we hit CoastFI—and we’re recording this episode from the woods, camping and reflecting on everything that’s happened since Matt stepped away from the 9-to-5 grind. In this candid conversation, we open up about the emotional shifts, role reversals, and lessons we’ve learned along the way.

Matt shares the transition into being a stay-at-home dad and the unexpected physical and emotional toll, while Yana discusses stepping up as the primary income earner. We also dig into the psychological impact of stopping aggressive savings and learning to accept slower portfolio growth—without spiraling into fear.

Plus, we chat about some big highlights from the year: being interviewed on other podcasts, speaking at events, and connecting with fellow FIRE-minded folks. We share new tools we love, talk about creativity, connection, and what we’re dreaming about for retirement now that we’ve tasted the CoastFI lifestyle.

If you're wondering what life actually looks like after reaching CoastFI, this episode is for you.

TOOLS WE LOVE AND USE:

Budgeting: Qube Money (https://bit.ly/Coast_Qube) — This is the tool that simplifies everything for us and gives us full control of our money. You will love it. Use the code “COAST” to get 2-months off the Premium or Family plan when you create an account.

Coast FIRE Calculator: BackofNapkin.co (https://bit.ly/backofnapikin_CoastFI) — Our new favorite tool for determining when you can stop saving for retirement.

Net Worth Tracking: Empower Personal Dashboard (https://bit.ly/4eI9CZs)

HSA Expense Tracker: (https://bit.ly/HSATracker) — We document our healthcare expenses so we can tap our HSA at any time without penalty. Here is the tool we use.

CONNECT WITH US:
Website: https://coastficouple.com
Instagram: @coastficouple (https://bit.ly/4dIzhB1)
Contact us: info@coastficouple.com

DISCLAIMER:
Heads up, friends! This show might include affiliate links or partnerships where we earn a little something—whether it’s cash, commissions, or cool products. Rest assured, the opinions here are 100% ours and not influenced, reviewed, or approved by advertise

TOOLS WE LOVE AND USE

Budgeting: Qube Money - Use code “COAST” to get 2-months off the Premium or Family plan when you create an account.

Net Worth Tracking: Empower Personal Dashboard

Coast FIRE Calculator: BackofNapkin.co

HSA Expense Tracking: HSA Expense Tracker

CONNECT WITH US:
Website: https://coastficouple.com
Instagram: @coastficouple
Contact us: info@coastficouple.com

DISCLAIMER:
Heads up, friends! This show might include affiliate links or partnerships where we earn a little something. Rest assured, the opinions here are 100% ours and not influenced, reviewed, or approved by advertisers. Remember, we’re here to entertain and share our journey, not to give professional advice. For the serious stuff, consult a pro!

#CoastFIRE #CoastFI #FinancialIndependenceRetireEarly #FIRECommunity...

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One Year Into CoastFI: Role Reversals, Slowing Down, and Finding Joy Beyond the Numbers

One Year Into CoastFI: Role Reversals, Slowing Down, and Finding Joy Beyond the Numbers

Matt Tarr