When you walk into a RELATIONSHIP you don’t LEAVE YOURSELF at the DOOR. I can’t be apart of any intimate or sexual relationship that is rooted in ownership and lack of trust. You are not obligated to give me access to everything (•) I am not moved by folx being attracted to you (•) I am not interested in your passwords without an emergency (•) I am not policing your friendships (•) I’m not interested in you being uncomfortable to please me (•) I am not compromising my uniqueness to please your standards (•) ..... I don’t know what sort of enslavement some folx are desiring but I’m uninterested in that. I can be monogamous. I can be polyamorous. But I am not rigid and boxed in any capacity.