In this second episode of PTL Power Points, Ryan sits down with PTL CEO and senior therapist Tien Kuei for a live, unscripted therapy session exploring the theme of male loneliness.

This powerful session gives listeners a real-time glimpse into Functional Analytic Psychotherapy (FAP) in action. Ryan courageously shares his personal experiences of isolation through chronic illness, life-threatening health challenges, relationship breakdowns, and the ongoing struggle of connecting with others after trauma.

Together, Tien and Ryan unpack:

The hidden weight of male loneliness and why it’s so prevalent today

How life-and-death experiences can create a sense of “no common frame of reference” with others

The exhaustion of constantly having to “front load” trauma when meeting new people

The tension between wanting connection and fearing being a burden

The difference between sharing trauma vs. simply naming the feeling in the moment (e.g., “I feel sad and lonely”)

How fear and rigid rules about trust can unintentionally deepen isolation

The importance of curiosity, vulnerability, and being seen as you are now, not only through the lens of past trauma

Resources & Links

Interested in volunteering as a client for a live session on the podcast? Contact us via the website.

If you’ve ever struggled with loneliness — male or otherwise — this episode is for you. It’s both a raw exploration of lived experience and a practical demonstration of how therapy can open doors to connection and relief.

Whether you’re a therapy student, practitioner, or just curious about mental health and healing, this episode is packed with inspiration, practical insights, and honest reflections on the journey into therapeutic work.

⁠⁠⁠⁠The Power to Live Foundation⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is a charity committed to breaking down financial barriers to therapy. We believe everyone deserves access to support that helps them live a meaningful life.

Our services include evidence-based behavioural therapies tailored to your income level, available online or at our clinic in⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Bishopsgate, City of London.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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