Parenting For The Long Game

Parenting For The Long Game

Update: 2025-12-30
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In part two of two, we explore authoritative parenting as a blend of warmth and structure that forms character for the long game. Faith and research meet in practical steps that build trust, align kids with reality, and make the teen years a joy rather than a warning.

• greeting rituals that prioritize presence over logistics
• using fewer words to lower defensiveness and increase responsiveness
• humor as connection that supports timely correction
• creating buffer zones like car rides for debrief not discipline
• aligning kids with reality through natural consequences
• treating lying as a trust issue with repair and restored freedom
• trust as the currency that expands autonomy in teen years
• tailoring authority to readiness, not age, and coaching growth
• why authoritative parenting suits trauma, ADHD, and high-demand needs
• staying in community with schools while resisting over-rescue
• repairing quickly and parenting toward the future adult


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Rebecca Harvin