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Permission to PAUSE: Finding the Line Between Rest and Avoidance

Permission to PAUSE: Finding the Line Between Rest and Avoidance

Update: 2025-05-27
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Ever find yourself unsure whether you’re genuinely tired — or just avoiding the work?


In this solo episode, I unpack what it really means to rest with intention, how to tell the difference between restorative stillness and sneaky self-sabotage, and why showing up for yourself sometimes means knowing when not to.


We’ll explore the balance between compassion and discipline, how to check in with your energy honestly, and how to know when it’s time to pause… or gently push forward.


This is your permission slip to rest — without guilt, without hustle.


TIME STAMPS

00:00 Honest real talk

02:32 Pause as a practise & my burnout experience

08:41 Navigating guilt when taking time off / resting

12:44 Check-in prompts for you

14:30 Balance between rest and AVOIDANCE

19:37 The return & re-entry


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Big love,

Nicola


[ @nicolacharlottecoaching ]

📷 Also available to watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@nicolacharlotte/videos

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Permission to PAUSE: Finding the Line Between Rest and Avoidance

Permission to PAUSE: Finding the Line Between Rest and Avoidance

Nicola Charlotte