Personal Finance Basics: Expenses - Controlling Where Your Money Goes

Personal Finance Basics: Expenses - Controlling Where Your Money Goes

Update: 2025-12-29
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Last week we mastered our Income. Now, we tackle the area where most people fail: Expense Control. As one brother once told me, "It doesn’t matter how much you make; it matters how you spend the money you make." If you feel trapped, it’s because you haven’t taken authority over your cash flow.

In this episode, we treat expense control as the active side of stewardship, giving you the practical tools—like the Four Walls—to plug the leaks and redirect God's provision toward your financial goals.

Key Takeaways & Action Steps

  • Expense Control is Discipline: A good steward guards the resources entrusted to him by preventing waste. Controlling your expenses is key to moving forward on your financial roadmap.

  • Classifying Your Costs: To budget effectively, you must distinguish between the two types of expenses:

  • Fixed Expenses (The Non-Negotiable): Costs that are generally the same amount every month (e.g., mortgage, debt minimums).

  • Variable Expenses (The Controllable): Costs that change monthly based on your choices (e.g., groceries, entertainment). This is where you find cash to balance your budget.

  • The Big Categories (The Four Walls): When budgeting, prioritize your basic needs in this strict order before addressing luxuries:

  1. Housing

  2. Food (Groceries, not restaurants)

  3. Transportation

  4. Utilities

  •  Segment: Choosing Your Intensity: You get to choose the pace of your progress. We discuss the spectrum of sacrifice, from the Maximum Intensity ("beans and rice") approach for fast wins, to a Steady Pace. The choice is yours, but every action must be guided by prayer and a focus on following how God directs you.

  • Your Action: The Expense Audit: Print out two months of bank statements and review every single charge. Categorize it all to calculate your average monthly spending. This number becomes the starting point for your new, realistic budget.



  • Your personal finances are an area of stewardship. Your primary goal is always to follow how God is directing you and your spouse.



Controlling your expenses is how you gain the power to tell your money where to go. But tracking it all and sticking to the plan can be hard alone.

If you are ready for the accountability to execute the Expense Audit, find the extra cash, and begin crushing debt, click the link below to connect with me directly. Let's redirect your cash flow toward generous, debt-free living!

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Personal Finance Basics: Expenses - Controlling Where Your Money Goes

Personal Finance Basics: Expenses - Controlling Where Your Money Goes

Jon Langlois