What does it really mean to raise a man?

Not just a rugby player. Not just a student. But a man — grounded, resilient, and ready for the world when the applause fades and the stadium lights go out.

In today’s conversation, I sat down with Wesley Chetty — a man who doesn’t just coach boys… he builds men. An Old Boy of Bishops and a mentor to some of South Africa’s finest rugby talent, Wesley’s influence reaches far beyond the pitch. Many of his players have gone on to wear the green and gold, but this episode isn’t about the game. It’s about everything that happens off it.

We talk about the quiet lessons that build character. The moments no one sees. The conversations that echo years later. Fatherhood. Mentorship. Masculinity. Legacy.

This is a raw and powerful exploration of what it means to truly raise men in a world that often forgets how.

This is Wesley Chetty.
This is Raising Men.