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Matthew 21:18-22 KJV

Now in the morning as he returned into the city, he hungered. [19] And when he saw a fig tree in the way, he came to it, and found nothing thereon, but leaves only, and said unto it, Let no fruit grow on thee henceforward for ever. And presently the fig tree withered away. [20] And when the disciples saw it, they marvelled, saying, How soon is the fig tree withered away! [21] Jesus answered and said unto them, Verily I say unto you, If ye have faith, and doubt not, ye shall not only do this which is done to the fig tree, but also if ye shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; it shall be done. [22] And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive. 

James 2:18 KJV

Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works.

James 2:26 KJV

For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.

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hello everybody i'm alfred i am listening to one hearts now this is the second part of the broadcast realistic expectations versus fits in finding a spouse now i talked about what's going on right now online when it comes to the world of

lifestyle you know and relationship question you know this move of women being realistic which what they want in a man you know that and phrases like um average women you know or or women who are average you know once men who are you know high-value men and all of that i've talked about several of these classifications you know in as much as it may look realistic you know that's certain people should not reach out of their league to find a spouse the reality of the matter that especially for women women since the beginning of time have been getting men that are out of their reach you know like look at cinder cinderella the cinderella story you know that is the way it has always been women as a matter of fact as a principle women are attracted to men that are higher than them or above them they either in earnings or everywhere else so that is the way it has always been so when you are trying to apply certain standards that seem to make common sense it is not the reality of what goes on when you are like saying that um because a woman may not be that beautiful or may not have this level of education or may not be this exposed because she has this this this she should look for a man within that range that is not how women think and for a long time women have been getting men out of you know out of their range you know out of their income class and on classes higher than them right from you know look at the nights a lot of nights married beautiful meetings some married meetings that were not so pretty i mean look at the look go to a gallery or go online and look at the pictures of all the queens of england look at the pictures of all of them how many of them are actually beautiful you know on on a scale of you know um when you when in comparison with other women you know how many of them are actually how many of them would you say i 10 are you going to tell me that that woman was the most beautiful woman in the land in her day you see look at the pictures it speaks for itself so men have different reasons you know the men are

very different and you know that that is why you have not seen you know you cannot have you ever seen a beautiful homeless girl or a beautiful homeless woman that is between the ages of 15 and 38 or even 40. have you ever seen any homeless woman that is beautiful that is within the age of 15 and unfortunate no in spite of the fact that a lot of the financial circumstances that puts men in such positions hits women also perhaps even more you know it it is it's not really um subject to presence when it comes to um the reality of making money but the point of the matter is that women are different if a woman was beautiful let us say that a somebody who was as beautiful as jennifer lopez or when she was young or you know um a supermodel you know in the real sense of supermodel not all this modern day um charity that they are doing and putting fat ugly women on the cover of magazines in the name of inclusion not that um kind of so-called beauty if a woman was a supermodel and was out of money do you know how many men will rush to her age of course there will be the end and expectation of either the advent there will be some that wants marriage there'll be some that want to sleep with her but there are some that will do it for even be controlled because there are a lot of sims around the number of men that seems has completely increased so you can't see women in those positions no homeless woman there is no beautiful homeless woman in this world anywhere in the world you can never see it you know if a woman baths you know and i'm not talking about you now trying to think about places like india or in a poor community where everybody else is poor i'm talking about in in a place where there are people that can be comfortable as a matter of fact even in that place where everybody else is poor if that rumor if a woman is beautiful not by the standards of this modern day feminist women beautiful by the standards of men who are the ones that are doing the judging of of what a woman's beauty is if a woman is beautiful and homeless apart from the fact that there is an industry called the sex trafficking industry that would that actually looks to mop up such women from the system or even creates women from places where they are even comfortable and bring them into that sister you would not see a homeless beautiful woman it doesn't exist because there are men everywhere who are willing to give her money or to help her or either with the aim of hopefully the um she will agree to sleep with me or perhaps i may get to marry her but that is just the reality of the matter you know men don't have that you know but the point i'm trying to show you is that men don't look have standards like that a man can be a billionaire and marry a papa a female as long as she is perhaps beautiful or smart there are a lot of look at the 90-day fiance stuff you know look look at look at what is going on man can a man who has money does not mind marrying as long as he thinks the woman the woman may not even speak his language she may not know anything about civilization but you know

she's beautiful in his eyes and then he picks and of course there's the aspect of um different levels of um beauty when it comes to interpretation and men who look for different things yeah most men that don't care about beauty you know because especially when they have been with a lot of beautiful women and they have treated them a certain way and all they have seen is that they are go diggers so what they put as their priorities something else so all these factors um are to be considered when you look at this modern movement of people who are giving relationship advice online and all of that you know a lot of what they are saying in the name of being realistic is actually things that um fits them they are looking at that they are trying to build women up to what they want but you have to understand that men want different things in a woman there are some men that want a woman that has a job that is um that is making money did that they really like that that is very important to them but there are some men that want a woman to start whom that is very important as a matter of fact the intelligence that most those a lot of those kind of men we end up going after a girl that's or a woman that has a job or that is a high executive and perhaps they make more then when they marry how when they get to a relationship with her they want her to leave all of that i mean if you you are that kind of person you should have gone for somebody who does not have a job to begin with and who does who does not care about having drugs and who is a homebody you know that is what you should have looked for not trying to change people you know after you get into a relationship with them or marry them that never works that is crazy you know people need to stop doing that stop trying to change people after i get into a relationship with them know yourself and it is from who you are you will know what fits you then you now decide you know what kind of person and it will actually tell you where to look for example if you have somebody who you spend on your time let's say a writer and you spend all your time you know just by yourself reading books like let's say that somebody like warren buffett he spends all his time reading financial statements that is how he he spends a lot of his time that is what he even when he goes on vacations like in the early days he goes with newspapers and he's reading financial statements if you are that kind of person you can't look out for what you like you there are sentences that may attract you you just like certain things yeah there's a lot of things that you may find beautiful but what fits you you know you may look out for a woman and you may see a woman that you find attractive and all of that but yeah don't don't look out because that is not a problem there are many um things that you may like but look at this aspect of your character and this fundamental part of who you are just like some people are uh uh kind of hemis they don