Tish's and Arlesia's accidental journey to parenthood brings uncharted waters into the traditional queer family narrative. After a rocky period in their relationship, Tish became pregnant with their son, Ethan, after a one-night stand. Despite the challenges, they decided to stay together and focus on raising their child. Now, as Ethan grows older, they are facing new transitions and learning to prioritize their own growth as individuals and as a couple. This episode highlights the importance of communication, honesty, and resilience in queer family building. It also emphasizes the need for appreciation, constant connection, and showing up for each other in a relationship.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

• Tish and Arlesia's relationship began in college and has endured many trials, emphasizing the strength and resilience of queer relationships.
• The couple had a serendipitous journey to parenthood, which included unexpected turns but led to their son Ethan, who they both cherish deeply.
• Transparency and growth have been central themes in their relationship, showcasing the importance of honesty and appreciation in a partnership.

🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈

• "This is all that matters. Nothing else matters. He is the most important thing.”
• "If you love that person enough, you have to show up as your true self every single day."
• "Grab the tea, girl. We're going on a journey."

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: 

• Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together
• Tish and Arlesia on Instagram @meetthewhitakers

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