Where are my fellow control freaks? 

Such an interesting and way more helpful perspective to rethink and redefine perfectionism. You know when you read a book and it’s so groundbreaking and helpful, you can’t help but tell all your friends, post about it? Well, I was the recipient of essentially being attacked on all sides that I needed to read this award-winning book, The Perfectionists’ Guide to Losing Control by Katherine Morgan Schafler. Katherine is a seasoned psychotherapist and former in-house therapist for Google, with a BA in psychology from Berkeley and 2 masters from Columbia University and I’ve got her incredibly refreshing and game-changing approach broken down today. We talk about self-punishment vs. discipline. We talk about adaptive and maladaptive perfectionism and why restoration and resting feels like failure to perfectionists - and my favorite, control vs. power. I really am super excited for you to hear it and can't wait to hear what type of perfectionist are you!

Timestamps:

• [00:10:01 ] Redefining Perfectionism
• [00:13:14 ] Gender bias in language.
• [00:17:22 ] Perfectionism and power seeking.
• [00:23:10 ] Five types of perfectionism.
• [00:27:21 ] Parisian Perfectionists and Relationships.
• [00:31:26 ] Knowing your type of perfectionism and collaborating with others
• [00:34:10 ] Self-worth and self-esteem.
• [00:39:03 ] Rethinking self-punishment and discipline.
• [00:42:14 ] Emotional education and self-compassion.
• [00:50:07 ] Resisting rest and restoration
• [00:54:12 ] Restoring and emptying out.
• [00:58:37 ] The Power of Play.
• [01:02:07 ] Presence and Power.
• [01:07:37 ] Gray rocking technique

Katherine Morgan Schafler - Guest Links:

The Perfectionists Guide to Losing Control - A Path to Peace and Power

What kind of Perfectionist are you? Take the Quiz

Katherine Morgan Schafler - IG

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