Rising Above The Pain & Building My Marriage On My Terms - Seta Maapola
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[S1] EPISODE 37: WHAT ARE GOING TO CHOOSE?
Honouring absent fathers is a profound act of maturity and intentionality, requiring deep reflection and a commitment to healing. In today's episode, Blaque sits down with Seta to explore what it looks like to honor their fathers despite their absence. Seta shares how his uncle stepped in as a father figure, modeling strength and manhood in a way that provided him with a solid foundation. Together, Blaque and Seta delve into the scars left by absent fathers and the long journey toward wholeness, discussing how therapy, faith, and deliberate effort have played vital roles in their healing. Seta also opens up about the incredible support of his wife, who has stood by him in his hardest moments, offering unwavering love and encouragement through his struggles.
The conversation shifts to marriage, where Seta emphasises the importance of men stepping up as husbands and fathers. From the value of regular date nights to navigating financial challenges, he shares how tough conversations with his wife shaped him into a better partner. One such moment involved confronting the insecurities that led him to overspend on his bakkie—a humbling experience that taught him the value of vulnerability and growth. Through these honest reflections, Seta offers practical advice for men looking to strengthen their relationships and become better for their families.
Finally, the episode dives into fatherhood, as Seta reflects on the kind of dad he wants to be for his children. Drawing lessons from his own upbringing, he speaks about breaking generational cycles and building a legacy of love and presence. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of marriage, reflecting on your role as a father, or striving to grow as a man, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and hope for the journey ahead.